what we see depends solely on what we look for.
tired of seeing your weight or faults every time you look in the mirror? look for the opposite. want to see good in someone? look for good qualities. dreading going into work on monday mornings [or any other day]? celebrate the good parts of your job, and cling to them. if you look for crap, you'll find crap, but if you look for beauty, beauty is what you will find.
you see, when you start looking for the good in the people around you, recognizing the good in your job, and in life, period, you become more grateful, and "gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. it turns what we have into enough, and more" [melody beattie].
thanksgiving comes once a year, but thanks-living can happen every day.