"why complain about something in your life when you're the master of it? if you don't like something, change it", she said.

she, being a random girl i met yesterday.

she wasn't talking to me directly, mind you, but what she said hit home any ways.

the truth is, whether it's about our job, the weather, a relationship, or the amount of traffic we get stuck behind during our morning commute, all of us can be guilty of complaining at times.

even truer, most things we complain about can be, like my new friend so kindly put it yesterday, changed.

and for the things that can't, our attitude can.